Husband went into 'dad mode' after his wife's killing in Australia

He had not realised how badly hurt his wife was until he heard his daughter say "mummy's bleeding".

Mrs Lovell was resuscitated at the scene and had a pulse before her husband was taken to hospital.

He said: "I didn't know how bad it was at the time. I knew she was bleeding but didn't know where from.

"I remember thinking at the time, 'I can't die, I can't leave the kids orphans'."

He recalled the "shock" at being told his wife had died.

"[Emma] not surviving didn't really cross my mind," he said.

From that point on, Mr Lovell described how he "entered dad mode" with his full focus on his daughters.

"Grief, there's no book to it," he said.

"I have found it quite hard grieving. I like to think of myself as a typical guy who can't do two things at once. It's either looking after the house and being a parent or grieving.

"I drive a small truck for work, it's an hour's drive and half the time I just put some music on, because I find music gets me to where I want to be and end up half the time just crying in my truck.

"The kids, the house, I've been trying to be the best parent I can be. It's all on me.

"They were 13 and 15 at the time. Emma lost her dad at 13 and I know how much that affected her."

Mr Lovell said he missed "everything" about his wife, who was from Hasketon, near Woodbridge, Suffolk.

"We just loved spending time together with our family, going getting coffees, making cocktails," he said.

"Sometimes in life you go through things and you're not so confident about something and you lean on that other person to help get you through and I just don't have that.

"It's also hard seeing couples together, you feel really angry and jealous about that.

"I suppose you feel you've had your future robbed."

The family spent last Christmas relaxing together on a nearby beach, cooking bacon and eggs.

"Emma said 'we really need to do this more often'," said Mr Lovell.

"It's something that stuck with me."

Paying tribute to his wife, he added: "She was just such a hardworking person and just such a wonderful mum, she was funny as well but shy with it and she was just really great to be around."

Mr Lovell decided to book a trip back to the UK to spend time with friends and family, arriving just before Christmas.

"I don't want one event to take away from the happy times that are in that house but I didn't want to be there for that first anniversary, so back in March I bought us tickets for the three of us to come back and catch up with friends and family," he said.

The Lovell family has been spending time with Christina Lofthouse, a close friend of the couple and Mrs Lovell's best friend.

Ms Lofthouse said the death had felt like "losing a limb".

"She was so beautiful, so amazing and it sounds clichéd, when somebody loses someone that we say those things, but she genuinely was," she said.

"Like Lee, I've got children, I haven't been able to just let grief take over."

Mr Lovell said he and the family were now awaiting updates on the court case.

The two teenagers were charged with one count each of murder, attempted murder and entering a dwelling with intent in company in December 2022.

One year on, the case has been "frustratingly slow" and Mr Lovell said prosecutors have warned him it may not go to trial until 2025.

He said: "I sometimes feel quite guilty for saying it, but I want the trial to be done.

"It's hanging over us and I want to move on but then by saying that it almost feels like I'm leaving Emma behind."

-bbc